What’s a Girl to do?
So you’ve gotten past the flirting and flaunting without a scratch and now you’re waiting for him to ring your bell in more ways than one.
The First Date has finally, thank the Gods of Love, arrived and maybe you’re feeling alternately insecure, anxious, excited or even downright randy.
Maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve had a choice chunk of man in your hands and you’re a little hungry for some good loving’ yourself.
But, there’s the rub. How does a modern girl appear alluring, adult and ever ready for action without also seeming desperate, dizzy or too conveniently disposable?
Well the good news is that you are in the drivers seat even though he may be the one with his foot on the gas pedal.
Remember that we’re talking about the First Date here and so whether we consider it anachronistic, old-fashioned or just plain unfun, for now it’s up to the Ladies to know when to apply the brakes on the evening hopefully sometime before it skids into the bedroom and it’s very likely that you may have to keep your emergency one on all night long just in case.
And it may be a very good idea to ease up on the beverage of your choice for the night while you’re at it. Liquor loosed lips can sink dating ships!
We’re not writing anything in stone here and you certainly shouldn’t behave like one on your 1st date but there really is no good reason to end up falling into bed on the first go-round either!
Fun is definitely on the menu for that first date but let’s try to keep all our clothes on while we’re doing it.
And for you very Modern Girls, no, saucy sexual favors are not an appetizer on that 1st night menu.
Some touching, some squeezing and maybe a bit of discreet tongue wrestling at the door is all that should, or needs to, be on the Fun Girl
Schedule for the evening.
No matter how tasty and charming he may be on that first night he will be equally tasty, even more charming and absolutely hungrier for you the second time around.
And every Good Man will be positively burning to get to that second date.
Second Verse, a bit different than the First
Good news for 2nd night? This is where you get to release your emergency brake. Pour the wine, kick up your heels, be outrageously flirty, fun and revel in your Girl power.
And yes, your finest, sexiest lingerie should be proudly if discreetly worn on the second “D” because he, and you, should absolutely get a chance to sample same in some decently (your place) private setting.
But we suggest that, if at all possible, you keep the crucial bits in place on that 2nd occasion even if they do get a bit of a frantic rearrangement by his “Roman” hands.
Things may indeed happen here- intimate, naughty, delightful things- but we feel that be that as it may, pulling back on the stick before he comes in for his final landing is still the most prudent course to plot here even if not a great deal of sensible thinking may actually be happening on this 2nd night flight.
By all means available in your feminine repertoire please insure that he enjoys the trip, and that you do too of course, but let’s try to keep from taking things all the way to LoveTown on the SuperExpress no matter how much he, or you, want to jump on board.
About now you may ask why?
A couple of reasons actually.
1. You may find that he becomes considerably calmer and easy to manage after you favor him with your 1st Class Service giving you a chance to simultaneously steer him gently to the door while absolutely nailing down a wet and wild 3rd date where all the stops will be pulled and walls will be shaken.
2. And this is trickier- He secretly wants it that way too!
YES, IT’S TRUE.
He’s a Man and he enjoys the Hunt.
And after the feverish tangling of your 2nd night, in his mind he is now on the prowl for Big Game!
Now he wants you so bad he can barely think straight and he consequently must have you or die trying.
And guess what?
He may even be unconsciously aware that he’s been Jedi Mind Tricked yet it just doesn’t matter.
He’s got you and that delicious deal he’s yet to close burned into his brain and won’t stop to consider anything but his eventual triumphant victory as a satisfactory conclusion to this story of his life.
Yes, you’re still in the Drivers Seat and he doesn’t even know it nor does he care. He just wants what he wants and that is Y-O-U!
All’s Well that ends Well
It’s the Big One.
You both know what you want and both know how to get it.
You can either skip the prelims then just get to the Main Event or you can simply invite him over “to watch a movie”.
If he inquires about the movie or makes suggestions either he lives with his Mom or something’s gone terribly wrong with your plan.
Now take these simple precautions-
1. Turn off your phone.
2. Disable your doorbell.
3. Ditch any distractions (roommates/pets/friends).
4. DO IT!
5. Do Not under any circumstances make him wait any longer than that 3rd occasion in order to spread the love all over the furniture.
He’s a Man who’s on the Hunt and he’s uncomfortably toting a gun that’s cocked so tight and hard it’s ready to go off accidentally whether he wants it to or not.
And, Ladies, unless his last name happens to be Hitler, he’s living in a target rich environment.
NOW IS THE TIME.
Trust us, the third one is better than a charm.
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