So, finally you planned to go for a romantic date with your ‘Dream Women’. If it is your first date, it’s obvious that you will be hammered with lot of questions like – what should I wear, how should I talk with her, how should I continue conversation etc.
Here are few tips which will definitely help you to overcome your ‘Fear’ to date your girl even though you are a complete novice.
No 1: The more you relax and show that you’re comfortable, the more your date will relax. If you feel like you’re getting nervous or tense, just take a deep breath, relax your shoulder muscles and smile. Just focus on having a good time.
No 2: Try to look your best and be punctual on dates. Get your hygiene and stiling sorted out. Most women are attracted to smartly dressed guys. Not over the top, at the height of fashion, but cleanly turned out in suitable clothes. So your appearance can be vital.
No 3: Flatter and compliment your date on the way she look and how she is dressed. She made a lot of effort for to look wonderful on your date. So, it’s good for her to hear that she looks good and is beautiful.
No 4: Don’t talk about normal boring topics or “guy topics”. If you want to be like every other boring guy out there, talk about what job she has, where she has gone to or goes to college. Only talk about guy topics like sports, lifting weights or something like that if SHE is already very interested in them. Also, don’t cling to a topic like it’s the only thing you can talk about. If a conversation dies, let it go.
No 5: While dating, it is important that you are honest in expressing yourself. This will lead to growth of a mutual understanding and trust platform amongst strangers. Being frank about yourself enables the person to know you better. Being true will help in making some real good friends for life.
No 6: Never date a married person because she would not leave her husband for you and you will be for her just a shoulder to cry on. These types of date are based only on lies.
No 7: Don’t be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.
No 8: One of the best ways to keep a conversation going is to have a few stories that you can tell at any time. When the conversation stops, just say, “Anyway,” and go into a story. The story doesn’t have to be something too amazing, just a little bit different.
No 9: When you are with your date, keep your eyes wide open, and observe her every step. OK, maybe not her every walking step, but at the very least, take note of the things that she likes. Her favorite color, her favorite chocolate, her favorite flower, her favorite dish.
No 10: Try to ask questions that encourage conversation rather than just a yes or no answer. For example, you could ask what was it about a book that made them like it rather than ‘did you like the book?’
No 11: Never talk about your previous relationships; it’s not something she wants to hear about!
Always tell the truth on a date, if you don’t it will catch up with you somewhere down the line!
No 12: You don’t have to spend so much if you will be only going to fast food chains. But it is a lot more fun to go restaurant-hopping and sampling each restaurant’s specialties. Don’t forget to skip some heavy snacks before doing this kind of date.
No 13: Pick a place to go to. Then while heading to that area, you can have fun learning about each other’s secrets while playing truth or dare!
Still looking for more tips and advice? Well, you can definitely check out some sites for more free ideas. I will recommend LoveBlab.com. It’s a new site but have lot of good contents.
Anyway, let me know your feedback about this post If my post helped you a bit, I will be glad.
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